well the formula is simple,

man : not married - MUST obey parents(after Allah n rasul of course). after married - MUST obey parents, not change a thing.

woman : not married - MUST obey parents. after married - MUST obey husband. parents are number 2.

we need to obey those who have responsible upon us. yakni, those who will answer why we disobey Allah on kiamat.

if unmarried woman/man expose aurat, parents need to take action. if the father is not there, the mother need to take action. or not, they both will be thrown in the hellfire because ignore the mungkar action committed by their children, along with the child of course.

the formula is easy, just like that. but to obey the rules, that is not that simple. we just need to, put effort to obey the rules, NOT keep giving excuses till end and put that 'what im doing IS the right thing. dont judge etc etc etc' while people stating the haq accordingly.

nevertheless, me done w that kinda people. maybe im not good enough to spread the truth among them. and i never good anyway, only a weak slave who will never be maksum forever. its not because theyre bad, it just because theyre being people, imperfect, like me. if theyre being bad and zalim, thats their problem w Allah swt. not my problem.

alhamdulillah ála kulli hal.