yeah..
the thing is, people in this field are taking the path of insaf. thats why they can absorb any nasihat without any exscuses.

people who growing up inspired by being proud in life and searching for it, wont have that. thats why it always 'be compassionate, be human etc' reasoning non stop.

for that, no one can help. only our own self.

kata imam ghazali ra, people have the words 'Respect Me' written on their forehead whn dealing with people anytime anywhere. thats true. and that is a disease, not healthy.

Allah mustaan